All you can do is seek God for the answer and do as He asks. Even if you spend the right kind of time together, there is such a thing as too much of a good thing. Learn how your comment data is processed. Ask yourself if he is actively pursuing a relationship with the Lord. But what if there was another option? So, the person you are dating is not yours. And co-dependent marriages eventually crumble because the weight on them is too heavy.
I thank God all the time for pushing my husband to continue to pursue me and continue to show me Christ.
Love In His Image: 7 Rules for Christian Dating
In fact, every principle discussed in this article is null and void without God at the center. Do I speak the truth or use white lies to protect myself. Did you catch how I phrased that? But you can start somewhere—slowly, and casually—and trust God to lead you into more. Jump to navigation. When you are trying to honor the Lord in dating and marriage, he will feel no need to do the same. I was once told that the closer you get to your 30s, the more dating becomes like a game of musical chairs.